Two muscle rings called sphincters surround
the anal opening.
Each functions independently.
If you insert a finger about one half-inch
into your anus and press your fingertip against the side,
you can clearly feel the two sphincter muscles. There is
less than a quarter-inch between them.
The external sphincter is controlled by the
central nervous system - just like the muscles of the hand,
for example. You can readily tense and relax this sphincter
whenever you want.
The internal sphincter is quite different.
This muscle is controlled by the involuntary or autonomic
part of the nervous system, which governs such functions
as heartbeat and stress response.
The internal sphincter reflects and responds
to fear and anxiety during anal sex. It will cause the anus
to tense up automatically even if the passive partner is
trying to relax. Thus, precautions about safety and comfort
are essential here.
Even if a person does feel comfortable during
anal sex, he or she may still need to learn voluntary control
over his or her internal sphincter in order to relax it
at will. Doing so requires regularly inserting a finger,
perhaps in the shower each day, and feeling the internal
sphincter.
The muscle changes spontaneously and in response
to behavior. In this instance, simply paying attention is
more important than trying to relax. Anyone can gradually
learn to control the internal sphincter at will.
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Anal sex
stats.
So how
do you do it?
Make
sure you lubricate well.
Anal
sex positions and questions/answers.
Anal
stimulation, including intercourse, is not painful if done
properly.
Anal
sex can be enjoyed even if it has been consistently uncomfortable
in the past.
Two muscle
rings called sphincters surround the anal opening. Each
functions independently.
Anal
stimulation provides many kinds of pleasure.
Anal stimulation
can lead to orgasm.
Different rules
of hygiene apply to the vagina and rectum.
Anal
intercourse is not necessarily an act of dominance and submission.
Anal
sex can be perfectly safe, even beneficial.
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